📖The big leap: conquer your hidden fear and take life to the next level

authors
Hendricks, Gay
year
2010

  • when things go too well, we sabotage ourselves

  • Upper Limit Problem

  • we don’t allow too much happiness

  • don’t spend too much time in you Zone of Incompetence

  • 4 barriers:

    • feeling that I am fundamentally flawed in some way (also manifests as a fear of if you commit to you genius, you might fail)

    • end up all alone, disloyal to my roots, and leave people behind

    • believing that more success brings more burden

    • the crime of outshining

  • 99% of the worrying is just to make you miserable (they are either non-real or non-actionable)

  • common barriers:

    • criticism and blame

    • arguments

      • arguments is making yourself a victim (i.e., who is more victim)

    • getting ill

  • “would you be willing to consider that your conflict is not about what you think it’s about?”

  • Do your higher-priority activities before lower-priority ones.

  • q

    I expand in abundance, success, and love every day, as I inspire those around me to do the same.